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Thursday, 2 May 2013

Maicon - The day I met humbleness

Once again I was walking my dog around the corner and once again I met someone who made me think about how lucky I actually am. So, there I was, walking down a street called Uruguai, which is the name of a mighty river in southern Brazil. I say mighty, because I am from Europe, where we praise the Danube as biggest river. Poor people, have never been to Brazil. Everything here is just more, bigger, louder, harder, hotter, -er. I mean, I am surrounded by superlatives! 

Anyway, walking down the street I pass that house that has been on sale for years. Right next to it they're building a new building, 9 stories high, which is exactly going to mess with the view of my bedroom window. Well... I'm walking there and I see a young boy. He's carrying a bag with a couple of cans. He smiles at me and I wait for him to beg for money. That's what they usually do. The look at you and smile. And then they have a very special way of asking for money,  as if it was your fault that you have a job and a house and they don't. 

He politely says "Good evening".  I nod and smile. And wait. He: "I know it is extremely unpleasant to have strange people asking for things. But could you give me one minute of your attention?" The well chosen words and his nice voice actually really do call my attention. I nod again. He goes on: "Tomorrow is a Holiday. I usually collect enough cans to get some money to buy food. But as there is this Holiday, everyone went to the beach. So I haven't found enough cans. That here (he shows me the bag) is all I got. This yellow house here is where Dona Vera lives. She is a teacher and I help here with her huge garden . But she is travelling, there is nobody home. She has beautiful flowers, I hope she watered them before she went to the beach...I go to school in the evenings and it is really hard to concentrate when you're hungry, you know. So I was wondering if you could be so kind to maybe buy a sandwich for me?"

I feel he's being honest. He looks at me, with his humble eyes and I wonder how hard it must be to depend on someone on the street to get a sandwich. How bad I'd feel to ask strangers for food. I would probably starve to death due to my ridiculous pride. I go to that shop at the corner every single day and just buy whatever I want. He passes the same shop and can't even buy an apple. 

We start chatting and I ask him about his family. Apparently he's got 5 younger siblings and his mom works the whole day. I picture this family living in a wooden house, full of hungry children running around. Do they even have beds?  "Come with me", I say. I go to the corner's shop. I buy food for one week. Three huge bags. He is so skinny and looks so fragile, I'm not sure he'll manage to carry all this. When he sees the bags his smile is a smile of relief. A smile of "I asked the right person for help", or something like that. I ask him: "Can you even carry this home?" "Of course I can! Thank you so much! You've saved my day! My family will be so happy to have all this! Thank you." 

I nod and say goodbye. He walks down the street. A neighbour from another house, who apparently knows him, smiles. I see them talking, I see Maicon showing the full bags of food, as if he had won a Mercedes. It was just rice and beans...



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